I do not know for what reason you decided to travel somewhere, but I will go to Lugu Lake to play a trip could be because of a news report on the reasons of the stimulus.

Appear in an addendum report on this news sermon - Australia has recently embarked on a marriage certificate issued to a new approach, all to get married spouse, if deemed necessary, first negotiated the conditions for divorce, in black and white for both sides to no grudges and no blame. 30% of the Australian divorce rate in this country is to reduce the estranged couple seemed like a good way to court.

After a first marriage, I realized that what the modern marriage system is not suitable for anything, including all kinds of systems designed by people finally have to face the test of changing times and eliminated. But this marriage up to now has not been the revolution away, causing people to feel as if wearing a sandal would like to go to the new century, Mercedes-Benz, a little power is not from the feet.

If we can, and love to establish an intimate relationship, this relationship has not Chejin knot, divorce troubles, it is a modern breakthrough in the boundaries of a new attempt of self. Not leave such an intimate relationship knot residence of the Moso tribe Lugu Lake in Yunnan Province, the can not a new idea.

They are there to save the planet at present still a few remaining matriarchal society, and their "walking marriage" is not married men and women do not marry, only care about once owned, who believe the permanence of the marriage a free evaluation of evidence. In the patriarchal society, the common-law relationship, avant-garde women have "time to embrace love, not love, when the separation" of the spirit. However, as an unmarried pregnant with the child, you must have Hengmei dare get ready for a thousand pointing fingers. This situation to the Lugu Lake is another look quite different. In the matrilineal society, the balance of the status of men and women, the children born from the mother's surname, women are masters, there is no discrimination or exploitation of women a man dared to society into the Pacific.

2: Escape black shops encountered "My Assia"

Wrapped around in my mind correcting interference problems relating to marriage, so I decided to leave for some field trips Lugu Lake. A night train from Kunming to Lijiang, in the Old Town of Lijiang tour kicked around in the crowd waves in two days after the third day, starting early in the morning take an early morning bus to Lugu Lake. Our driver intrinsic communism with Chinese characteristics, the five car, "FIT" (self-help tourists) to force the winning way, and he sent a personal relationship of the self-employed restaurant in an attempt to leave our money there in his communist about. In fact, this hotel fees and quality are also reasonable, but I swim more extensive knowledge, always do not like being treated as "urn in the turtle."

Taking advantage of the shop was busy greeting burst of sound, I Beizhao Bao begins with a hot-pursuit tactics were out of hotels. We were down to this place called Luohe, but like a village the size of the lake shore is the most crowded place.

Since this is the time to November low season for tourism, along the lake an inter-connected Mosuo Manor (Mosuo people use wood and offers visitors self-built owner-occupied residential use? Seems unusual deserted. I scattershot of sloshing in the shore tidal sound of one side there are several who idly manor looked at me as if I live can not afford to shop like, do not ask me a question, but also not to do business ah? so difficult that I hastened to bow .. a look, zippers no problem ah, and then I called a local saying the slogan, "Mosuo people do not soliciting, soliciting is not Mosuo people." as the difference between more and more commercially aggressive and strong in the Mainland investors, I'm afraid they accounted for Nestle Dove destroyed the original simplicity of the lake the wind.

I live on the go in this manor is definitely Mosuo people self-employed, I stood in his doorway a moment, inside the owner to make Guzhe in the hospitals Clothesline, does not care about what was happening outside. Suddenly at a glance, the master saw me, and that one, intuition told me, 'is here in. 'This is called "ice Ma" girl band I saw there is a window faces a lake and out the room price was 15 yuan, I want the moment, and then looked around the environment, they discovered that I was their current Shonai the only guests. In addition to her home called Natiao love dogs, looked quiet landscape, such as a picture.

Third, entangled Assia, due to take the marriage of curiosity

Good luggage shelf, say goodbye to Mary too busy to break the ice, then stamp go toward Ferry. The quiet afternoon up to the boiling there. Moso tribe's young people wear traditional attire, dressed in Guys and Dolls Ferry hail a car drove past tours, or laugh to accompany photographic, or carrying rafting. Boating Boating everywhere, but only in order to sit here on the lake's unique pig bad boat. According to legend, in the long, long time ago, the lake is only a low-lying area of the basin, there is no lake. Only in the local goddess Gorm mountain, there is a cave would be springs of water.

One day a shepherd boy found frequently to drink spring water spring water does not flow, and you look closely, is a big fish blocked the spring. This cowboy is how Yala not move this big fish, but finally brought together several of the village together with a rope Lux This the fish to drag out. Who knows at once began spewing spring flood, without a moment put the villages inundated. Villagers were drowned in the tragic occasion, there is a pig's Aunt caught in a crisis between the floating in the water used to hold pig feed Mu Cao, many children quickly plug in. This retains the Moso family roots.

Posterity to commemorate the pig bad Care, then follow the pig worse when the boat so far. However, today's pig had not do worse Care boat, mostly for welcome. In order to absorb traffic, widened not only pigs bad fitted within the pig feed, is used to hold a few pigs are more than enough. Groups of vehicles that were driven down from a tourist boat, take pictures, buy souvenirs, and then were driven hurriedly away on the train clamor clamor of tourists who, from some point of view, really a bit like "exploitation" it.

To restore calm lake boat over the water no trace, in the calm waters of the lake, looking down, reportedly the largest up to 12 meters visibility. Until the time of the sunset at the lake, which Caigan Xin returned to Manor. Days are dark, still no other guests to live in.. Opportunity to, at least for tonight, ice ma ears are my own. I take care of dinner to her, himself and her follow-up with a back and forth in the kitchen and dining room, walk around the general topic of marriage, the tourists must have come here are all special interest in this topic, I wonder how the ice ma to answer the same question many times, holds many lessons for the present yet another one.

And her conversations are anemic. She and those who frequently comes into contact with tourists of the Mosuo people generally wait for them to block the entrance to the village there are notices to take the marriage very clearly explain, whenever people asked, as long as reaching a mean, you can see the characters, wrote: 'Mosuo people still practice Men do not marry and women are not married, free to go marriage marriage customs, also known as Assia marriage. Moso tribe to the men and women of marriageable age, if the two sides initiation love, must first be changed to hide that gift-giving, male call girls do Assia A column. This time, appointments are often avoid human eyes and ears of the dead of night at Hanabusa (a woman's boudoir) to act quietly. Once the parties Qingshen Yi thick, then the public relations between the two. A column can be male at this time reached a higher level, in addition to greenhouse can be out of house legal wife chat female Assia tea. If the couple have children, all from the mother's surname and placed in mother's home care. If they decided to break up, women Assia simply placed on the man's original gift of the gate, the man rushed out of the will be able to understand.

4: Assia hate me, and sadly parting bonfire party

I do not have to wait until that point is already clear, ice-Ma-she hated me. She helped me do a good job of rice, Yi Liuyan the movement of people disappeared, is it me .. hurry Ditouyikan, zippers are good ah, probably divorced men's confidence crisis bar. Who finished a meal, Xin Liang, such as night, Shonai go and no one, only the bark was rampant. I lost, walked out of the garden sneak listen to waves rippling lake. Night of the Lugu Lake River businessman erected a shelter shed off the barbecue, charcoal strewn with locally produced fish and shrimp. After dinner walk in the lake visitors to enjoy the scenery a little later, someone mentioned that there are bonfire 7:00 performances, on the square in front of Moso Heritage Museum. Tickets are 10 yuan, floor and more people waiting to watch the fun and the camera sitting position. Peugeot traditional Mosuo dressed sons and daughters to do in the night Dancing through the magic of the wizard, the fire situation in the Jue.

Had been a feast for the eyes of some non-performance of mainland tourists to the destruction of self-love, they long time ago, entering into the dancers in the mix, off-line action became a clown, funny, unfortunately this is not a comedy, then the other person probably not willing to suffer, have also followed the end of the show has not stormed the field. "We have this situation and the local people into the mix." Pretty fellow! Finally, I can only see a group of people actually became a hit, but the Moso tribe of song and dance I have always failed to make the situation.

Campfire scene and then get out of control, the whole reduced to a wildfire, a time for everyone rushed and Moso tribe of handsome guy beauty school dance hand waist Rotary Mosuo folk dance. We want to play pretty, and you grandfather I was to spend ten dollars renminbi, though little money, but anyone who was robbed of my chance to pull Beauty hand, I can with him desperate. I have two scissors-lunge back Xinyi Heng sweethearts hand. Attention to her graceful dancing for a long time, and now just waiting .. what to say Mosuo loved one will quietly pull the palm of the hand girl child. I did not believe, but added was the girl turned to run away bypassing the hand or the whole scene is more pathetic is. I not only witnessed, but I do not is one of the. Wretch not at the bonfire before the end of the tactful way of "my cold little hand" back into the pocket, sadly out of there.

5: daughter of the country head of the family, open marriage to me and Assia go

Mary returned to her home ice, the hot water bath on the points you want to sleep early, but the next chance, have been ice-grandmother, Mary's mother to go to tea room. In her country, the grandmother is the head of the family. Her room is the main hall. A grandmother, ci head into the room, see a smile, my heart is like a single travel alert melting down into the pulp inside the iron, suddenly on since.

Ice Mary's mom, I call her eldest sister, and a Tibetan middle-aged man, he was the coach driver to open in the grandmother's room have been sitting here for quite a while, I was such a join, tea, pouring, and advised tobacco , eldest sister and brother that no drivers off the hook. I come from Taiwan, which could become the next hottest topic of the fire. Big Brother keeps complimenting his favorite driver is contained in Taiwan in the old regiment. Said咱veterans love to clean the car without sputum crumbs, along with tips and good people also polite, said that if a round, reciprocity and I mention I travel to Tibet, moved, which, under the translation of grandmother in the big sister under I favor a Canada that cares about what the elderly in Beijing, Mandarin, she only tied to a dream Soul of the Soul Sanctuary Lhasa once more.

And I am working slowly remembered street was to accompany her, Jokhang Temple and the elderly to meet the way they talked and talked and laughed. Just the atmosphere, the room has a charming addition of a girl, the driver brother jokingly address him that she was seeking a girlfriend. Embolden Xia Du a few glasses of wine, he starts it is a mouthful Peach classics, said he was more virtuous wife, let him openly in the Lugu Lake area, went to marriage. Said that he's no problem, said Schmidt Queba I also get involved, single, from Taiwan, but also love of Tibet, such a man is not in the lake birth to a child. This time the old grandmother and his older sister had not put me as an outsider, even open and the ice Ma asked me to take marriage. I just find it incredible, too incredible, and I agree, how can such a ridiculous thing, even if the jokes are not OK.

I am silent a long time, Only said to them: "Ice Ma how old?"

I said, older brother how to drive so gracious, close to the old grandmother, after the former arrogant Gong, and later had his own travel company to allow visitors to "go to the public", the huge number of twenty one group of people squeezed into this tiny grandmother all rooms. I hated crowded and more hate on this happens they are the key to kill came in to interrupt my grandmother's original conversation. A group of people standing sitting occupy every corner of the room darker. Driver brother phrase, a scholar-type spots begin to examine: the "Mosuo people is how a marriage will take something ah?"

6, two greenhouse, a large group actually invited me to turn onto a walk?

So I said, how the ice ma unsympathetic, and she said if only half of the people disappeared. It turns out her dress hurry, and good to go to bonfire show, which is why one afternoon not see big sister, and they Mosuo people Luohe's tourism industry Whether it rowing, jumping bonfires and so on are taken out of the household labor force in turn, the proceeds will be evenly distributed Imagine this requires groups have much confidence and refrain from actually Marxist ideal of communism in this land bloom. Every one, three, five-day big sister to go punting, ice Ma in the evening to show, nothing to fight for, nor engage in small smart Tuituo. "Is there is no dispute here? No dispute?" Listening to my question.

Big sister is far from pointing to a place I had off, said: "That hotel proprietress is also holding a kitchen knife the night before with her husband at the door of an argument with a harsh, but they are husband and wife come from Sichuan. As for the Mosuo people between the young man drinks only more fighting, and now due to very heavy penalties, fights rarely met with. "Taotao drivers have never been to Big Brother is still blowing his peach, economic, Hongde a group who is known laughs , I and his older sister queue at the door, Figure mouth of fresh air, fresh trouble for the house that we had a good laugh Gu.

Trouble for more than an hour, twenty again a gust of wind a few people in scrapings of the grandmother's room. Leaving the room a lonely wolf. Ma do not know when the ice had slipped back from the bonfire, where a person quietly clutching a broom cleaning the floor guapi scraps of paper. Although she has in exchange for civilian clothes, but his face shine rouge is still under the charm of the fire. I looked at her big sister looked at me, This thought of a topic not previously completed. "She is 16 years old." Big Sister topic again pulled back.

Mary looked at the ice weather-beaten face, Dao Si Han nearly 30 women. I'd swallowed a sigh of relief, said: "Too young bar!" Big Sister access cavity "with you just ah." "No, no, I have 36 of it." Eldest sister, and one went so far as I have just one face, presumably She is also down breath. "No bar! You look only a few twenty-na, 36, then one year older than I do." Big sister's face suddenly flush lot of attention. For the early years of her marriage that went on relocation in other countries of the A column, only to leave her ice Fama and endless memories. She had a long period of time Konggui her lonely I can understand, so I put her the following passage as a joke for me to say.

"Then you embolden drink wine, and the only woman in the town tonight, you are a man, and if you dare,咱here are two greenhouse, you can turn onto the one to go."哈哈.. I have only kept highly giggle the brain where the blank can not think of anything that can goes on to say. This is where I like Moso girl, independent, straightforward, have a sense of humor. "Sister, you really will be a joke, ha ha .."

I do not know for what reason you decide to go the same place to repeat tourism, but if I would play Zaiqu Lugu Lake trip is certainly not only because of one reason why the news of the stimulus.