Always thought that such a child-like Innocent and naive, it is already on a lifetime event, and we just know how to socialize, compliment, cover up, hypocritical, but do so in the most crowded city in one of the most lonely person.
However, such accidents, the lake with the most gentle hands tearing all of us under the disguise of peace with all of our sadness anger hatred, excitement with all of our mortal world abounds.
Cars circle around the Lugu Lake to turn down, tour guides and drivers, Alan, they told us that the lake is fed goddess tears of grief. Therefore, it is always so quiet, so clear, so to soften. This is a very sensational legend, but also a lack of creativity of the legend, but the face of Lugu Lake, in the face of clear water which Wang, a seat blue sky, this is one of the most appropriate legends.
Lugu Lake, a place of love destined to produce, but also cherishing the memory of love is bound to be a place. Even those who love the way the pain before, missing people, in front of them, and finally began to calm.
Lugu Lake, how many surprises
We finally arrive in time for the Luohe village before dark, which is one of the busiest village of Lugu Lake. Years of tourism development, Luohe village apparently already meet the coming and going of the South "donkey" North passengers, each household will be their ancestral family home converted into large and small-scale hotels, and even openly in front of the sign prominently read, "24-hour hot water bath" in order to look forward to the city's patronage. The Lugu Lake side and that groups of Moso tribe men and women, the program type to each and every one coming and going of outsiders to sell their horses or boats ... ...
This Lugu Lake, faintly so we feel a little disappointed.
We hope that we as a transparent general, looking at the Mosuo men and women freely walk, chat, play, or even falling in love, but that one after a hotel sign, but it constantly reminds us that today's Lugu Lake, Mosuo people are still master, only that we - those eyes with curiosity and excitement of the tourists is the protagonist.
Until dusk, when the last of a column the day the sun shining oblique to the lake shore, when we live in, such as dreams are dissolving a camel has been shock and awe: That's what a bunch of light, with a holy golden, warm and bright , in the four weeks off, the sky gradually in the dark appears to be proud and passionate, though only to accommodate the eccentric to that place, yet the whole village, rendering Luohe van Gogh has become the hearts of the bare Muse shrine. Even row of the pier parking is also very crude Zhu Caochuan the glory of gold-plated layer of gold.
I began to get excited, heart rate was terrible, as though the year saw the Western Paradise Tang Seng Holy Land in general. Want to scream, want to wildly dancing, like to kneel before, people also can not move but how can only innocently standing there, facing the golden light, amused eyes, his mouth only to spit out one word: "nice!" Peer's friends frantically taking pictures to try this all the excitement of the specimens made of the eternal. Without the camera I can only greedy collection of pieces of each one and look forward to a day at midnight Guangzhou, can meet with them again in a dream.
This is the first day of Lugu Lake, from the pale to the thrilling shock of loss, but only a step in between. Lugu Lake, how many surprises.
Great Wolf Bar: filled with the flavor of love
Compared to Lijiang, Lugu Lake, the bar should be much less, but when talking about Emotions from the Perspective and the style can not be in the same breath. However, the large wolf bar is an exception. The words of one visitor: "This was filled with the flavor of love."
Originally, large bar, decorated the wolf is also nothing very special about, but the door a big portrait of the hero of men and women were particularly noticeable. It is this period of romantic love, big wolf bar Lugu Lake has become the most famous bars, large lake inside the wolf can be considered a celebrity. He and Helen's love that part of the legendary romantic love has become a model, and as every visitor to the lake must be feeling a thing.
City girl Helen had to escape a feeling of sadness came to the lake, but with the here and handsome young man Okami bumped Moso. The so-called marriage is thousands of miles will accompany course, this is far apart a man and a woman, but miraculously passion for life in the Lugu Lake. Lugu Lake on the grand wedding will not only allow the same as Helen was basking in the beauty of this painting, the more lost in this fairy-tale love life in general.
Today, there has been great wolf coyote, 45-year-old appearance, Hutouhunao look, see who is not afraid of-sheng, brothers and sisters, aunts and uncles were openly cried. Great Wolf and Helen is also a casual of the casual, Managing Rourou smile, greet the.
Thus, each bar of tourists who arrive at the wolf, are like the temple of love came to a general, happy and sweet to see a large wolf and Helen, is always some emotion, some blessings. Great Wolf Bar inside the message of this exception and therefore exciting. It was touching wounds, tears; others learn from their mistakes, swore past; others complain about the fate of injustice, and full of bitterness; some have come to believe the previous hopes on the road.
Out from the big wolf when the bar is already a little late at night. Looking upward, and the hope and the lake of stars so much so bright, so the cunning and mischievous, and finally through the heavy camouflage up to the softest heart place. Do not know how many people love to come to Lugu Lake, big wolf came to it, do not know how many people can see the evening's stars, but the sky so gentle gaze leads people to believe that maybe one day, they also ran into his wolf and Helen.
Moso girl-Na Kim Droma
Many people are directed at Moso tribe "walking marriage" came to the lake. "Walking marriage" is a traditional custom of Moso tribe, but also has a rare matriarchal way of life. However, the "walking marriage" is not like ordinary people, as envisaged in: Colorectal married off as selfish and arbitrary. In fact, take the marriage for the Mosuo family is concerned, is a very serious matter. Moso tribe in the traditional customs, but also has a very strict behavior requirements did not arbitrary, it is a guarantee of absolute status of women in the family way.
In the evening campfire, we recognize the village inside the "golden voice", Moso girl-Na Kim Droma. Dolma early 20s until this year, although the 14-year-old woman from the Moso fitted skirt adult time is long, but it did not intend to so early Droma "walking marriage." Droma his side at the pier to open a small bar, called "Lover," is said to be bars, but after all, novice, which the mood and layout than the "Big Wolf Bar" bad a lot, a bright incandescent lamp making The name of the bar as the restaurant some more.
Dolma is very generous with us Daoshi these outsiders talk about "walking marriage", in fact, take the Moso tribe marriage is equivalent to the Han trial marriage, combined with not so random. Requirements of traditional marriage between men and women that both sides should take the acquaintance of three years, the intimate friend of three years, fell in love for three years, a total of nine years to go before they can be married. Today, such a provision has long been over time and gradually fading out the principles of Moso people's lives, but take a longer time before marriage exchanges, and must obtain parental consent, which was not changed.
After the marriage to go until a month after a child was born, the father must give a feast to the woman's home for entertaining, will all know the village people are incurred drink. However, the responsibility of raising children falls on the child's mother and uncle who. In the Mosuo family, the uncle has a higher authority than the father, but also to be caring for younger objects. New life in the bear and rear the same time, every family will have some women in order to balance the number of people inside the house, while the expense of their reproductive rights. They are thus subject to more respect for his family.
However, the Drolma also admitted that as time goes on, the marriage has been Mosuo people not as a single, like most traditional "walking marriage", the same as marriage with the Han, as well as a number of other marriages between one of the ways are beginning to be accepted. As for that time Dolma will choose a way to accept what life in another man, Droma do not know.
Grandmother, old and mysterious house
Lugu Lake from the last day of the morning, we are fortunate to be invited by Dolma to their grandmother's house to see the family.
In the Moso tribe customs, the maternal grandmother's house is a focal point for homes, generally built on the right side of the courtyard is used to support the family of the most authoritative of women, is also a place where homes collective activities is a deliberative, cooking, and worship, worship The core part of the house to receive guests in the grandmother is the highest courtesy Moso tribe.
Crossed the high threshold, and we walked into some of this slightly dark grandmother house. Grandmothers house are made of wood structures, in addition to a roof ventilation windows, four weeks do not see any windows; room furnishings simple, old, relying on the side of fireplace with a very old-enclosed wooden bed, but also the only old house of a bed; Kannei stacked wooden door a few good Zhu Biaorou first production, held down flat, this is Mosuo people in ancient times as symbols of wealth, Zhu Biaorou more on behalf of home richer.
House in the central wall of the ground, there is a square fireplace. It is said that Mosuo homes fireplace is the most sacred place, is the mother house of the heart, represents homes and ancestors, Mosuo people do not put out the fireplace is a year-round, and on behalf of the family life, which lasted for exactly; fireplace stood beneath the two columns, left column for men, the right column for women, which two columns must be from the same a sunny slope in the growth of trees by the system on top of the tree as a man-chu, the roots of a woman to make columns, a symbol of women are homes The "arrhizus," men and women the same origin and mutual complementarity, equality and harmony.
We Huo Tangbian sit down chat with the Drolma. For those of us from the big cities, live in high-rise reinforced concrete used to people who, old and mysterious grandmother's house so that we really are very strange, and repeatedly asked this question on that. Penetrating down from the skylight on the beam is also to let such a bunch of conversations and add more of a mysterious force. Companion suddenly discovered that behind us, there is a small door, near-square, half a meter high from the ground, at first glance would think that was a cupboard. And such a door is Moso tribe's most sacred door, the woman only in two cases to come through this door to enter inside a room, that is, having children and death. Because of this, the door has also been called the door of life and death, it accommodates the Moso tribe for generations to come the rise and fall of the blood.
We will eventually forget this farewell to Lugu Lake.
Once thought that city life has been touched by the passion and polished, in the Lugu Lake River, and we eventually bit by bit to find the back. Wang faced with a kind of clean water, then zoomed off into the water dripping Earned impulse, that evening in the Guozhuang dance drunkenly with strangers coiled relieved, there is no reason that the face of a sudden emerging intoxicated, and so on have let some of our trance, and some emotion. Always thought that such a child-like Innocent and naive, it is already on a lifetime event, and we just know how to socialize, compliment, cover up, hypocritical, but do so in the most crowded city in one of the most lonely person.
However, such accidents, the lake with the most gentle hands tearing all of us under the disguise of peace with all of our sadness anger hatred, excitement with all of our mortal world abounds.
The only regret is that in the Lugu Lake, there is no rain, and no fortune to see many people talking about pairs of rainbow beauty, perhaps, this is an excuse to re-visit the next time.
However, think carefully about it, to re-visit the Lugu Lake do need an excuse?
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