1: Shanghai Men: This topic has been discussed for a long time online, and friends around the hearsay Ye Hao, contact Ye Hao, analyze their own insight, and I'll talk about my views:
The first self-introduction, I was from Zhejiang, education and Shanghai, the last to stay in Shanghai, becoming the introduction of the so-called foreign talent, mixed in a Shanghai accounts, has lived in Shanghai for 8 years, so much for three Shanghai girlfriend, respectively, the upper part of Shanghai ( money and rank of the native-born families, living is a lot Huaihai Road), middle (teachers family, is a new district Central Plains), lower (alley out), because cohabitation before, also know that Shanghai women to men of view. Because the working relationship between the living and working in Beijing six months, but also spent six months in Guangzhou, so I might mention it, a certain representative and comparative.
Let me first say a few strange things of life:
In Shanghai, paid less than men, a true friend; while in Beijing, Guangzhou, Zhejiang, can be relatively quickly refer the drink, talk about women, can help a friend, terrific to a friend. In short, they will spend AA system, even if you have guests, he will give a return, lest he owe you like, of course, this is a good, and some simply wipe your oil, so you being taken advantage of. Shanghai people suffer as a man of no standards, I ask subordinates, will not please the people of Shanghai, Shanghai, someone does not free from anxiety, could not stand pain, give an example, some of Shanghai has always been a man to work on time, and the company through thick and thin will never feel . Will be reimbursed their own bus, and then look for a taxi votes reported. I think Shanghai will not get people to admire the big companies, not unrelated. Shanghai people really still quite exclusive, and your success that you are fabulously rich, will not respect you, will only look for opportunities to fix you, or a lot of things and you roundabout to let you out of money wasted blood, I think a man is the only nation Shanghai a way you have to ask will not tell you, or refer to the opposite direction of the man, because he did not feel good, my first trip to Shanghai would face such a thing, or even later met several times; you dire straits, often vitriolic Language dig you. General, the people of Shanghai more than one company, often the probability of a small circle appears relatively large. Shanghai men act lacking in enterprise, so many people from outside Shanghai's successful people often do not believe, you go to look at the name capital, you go to look at Gubei.
I could analyze inaccurate, but I analyze the composition of the crowd, think that reasonable: After the liberation of Shanghai, a large number of northern Jiangsu, Anhui refugees came to Shanghai, together with Shanghai Bunsen industrial workers, constitute the main man in the street, people across the country experienced a significant Some belong to the descendants of these families come out, they are mainly located in Yangpu, Zhabei, Changning, Jing'an, etc. Suzhou River line, as well as Huangpu and Luwan enter some areas. Remember that someone evaluation, Shanghai, many people are actually the descendants of coachman and cleaning shoes, Shanghai shopping street wearing pajamas, and Brew, often these people. Rather, intellectuals, live in the house garden is not like this, long ago, Shanghai and a bit position, or to live on "only Corner" of, or in southern Jiangsu, old Ningbo, the family is unwilling to children and people in northern Jiangsu, Anhui descendants married persons, as white-collar workers are now women will not, younger workers, migrant workers like Tanhunlunjia. After liberation, the literati, tycoons, artists, big capital Petty was driven away, foreigners gone, replaced by the working class, (Hong Kong Chief Executive John Tung family, there is still an old house in Shanghai, Jung also has), so a new way of life to , and Huaihai Road, Xinhua Road, the old house had stood was admitted to the masters of the window, garden from which hung underwear, diapers, as they did at home, but they look down on people home, while the descendants of a little progress, We also hope to become an old master of the house, desperately Cauto abroad, hoping the same as the liberation of the white-collar workers, who have a head has to do in the first generation of the face. The country, especially in new generation, dreams of Shanghai, is Ai-Ling's novels started, I am also Zhang Mi, and I have lived Zhang (now Nanjing West Road, Changde Road at the junction of the German apartment) apartment in the vicinity of writing a novel , Shanghai, then an alien, white-collar, small open, is a cup of coffee, to French Park (now Shanghai Fuxing Park, Shanghai store in Lan Kwai Fong was among them), to the Paramount Ballroom, I think, the earliest petty bourgeoisie, that is, the groups of people. Shanghai real shanty town, part of the Lanes of the people are not doing, they go to the larger world, Yuyuan Garden, Fourth Avenue (now the Fuzhou Road, a street culture, liberation was a brothel a street). Small Shanghai, Huayang everywhere, because many people, living environment, a drastic change, "三毛流浪记" is a true reflection, in fact, is still a lot of squatter settlements, "72 Tenants" is very typical of , because the old Lanes no sanitation facilities, many men wanted to go to the toilet! ! . Person, one crowded, there will be conflict, quality of life in contrast, it will cause psychological contrast, the distortion of human nature are often the people's weaknesses exposed, he is bound to the use of packaging to disguise the identity of inferiority, which is why the people of Shanghai, in particular, the reasons for a famous man, living environment until the past few years have improved; In addition, to marry in the house was a deciding factor, according to the head hours after the liberation of the house, rather than sex, man, "inserted down door" is not surprising that , and this means that the family status of men is not high, not surprisingly, in Shanghai, and even now, the family mother of the children the greatest impact, while the Shanghai women's smart household is known, my girlfriend lower Her father is inserted down the door, my mother in charge of everything, the family if the man will always have a quarrel with heart disease: a house, that means being driven out the possibility of a man. Some are even tragic, a room of several generations of living together, separated by cloth clean, but also down the toilet, so that the living environment of a minority, imagine a person's character, what kind of change? Man, it should be for the family to create a good living environment, he did not do so, the result is to be his wife reprove, no status, my father, three women are not their home status. So, I think Shanghai is a city of motherhood, Yinshengyangcui, those who have been to Shanghai, people think, Shanghai houses high, billboards, banners Menbian huge, Oriental Pearl Tower is very impressive, it seems to make up for anything, because the city's character is absolutely the opposite. I think that Shanghai men are a very special group, it is necessary to face, what will a man (Eurya Qing), income is limited (because of the past, mostly working class), it is necessary to succeed in the groups, how can I do? Saving a penny to count the flowers, to be selfish, to step on others, not necessarily self-serving kind of harm (the Gang of Four Shanghai were the Big Dipper are known, like Zhang Chunqiao).
Of course, the composition of the people of Shanghai have been a certain change, (but exclusive of Shanghai has not been changed, you see, leave Shanghai for another higher threshold), but the people of Shanghai cited several office buildings have been proud of the majority of executives and manager, many of them are like me in the field of Shanghai, (also known as the New Shanghai people, but the eyes of ordinary people in Shanghai, I will always be outsiders, there is an experience I can tell you to feel the field and Shanghai people's attitude and mind I speak Cantonese in Guangzhou, Guangzhou, said: Yes Well, more like the more we talk about, while speaking at the Shanghai Dialect, he would deliberately in Mandarin dialogue with you to show your identity is a stranger, or: help out the future do not use pidgin and I talked about this point I think many people have the same feeling, speak no accents everywhere in Shanghai Dialect will not be difficult.) Shanghai people, especially a woman to do a few main tasks: front desk, assistant, accounting (which is their strength), etc., Shanghai people willing to be Hong Kong, foreign leaders, unwilling to be led from outside, and even the surface subject, psychology would say: Rural Palestinian child. Unfortunately, 25 years old unemployed local people of Shanghai accounts for 50% of the entire unemployed population, therefore, according to a recent People's Congress said that apart from 4050 works, but also engage in projects 2030, and now we understand why the college entrance examination like to engage in a Shanghai Shanghai volume, leaving Shanghai 211 Project to be the reason behind the university? I have worked in Shanghai, a teacher, it can be said in the next few years, is that Shanghai is the biggest pressure of employment a few years, because high school is incredibly crowded, a lot of enrollment. Downtown Shanghai in the future based mainly on commerce, and office buildings, mainly white-collar work, and these places can not absorb so many people, go where?: Factory (such as the Pudong Jinqiao, Waigaoqiao, Minhang, etc.), service industries may cause the people of Shanghai are psychologically difficult to accept.
Now many more to live farther Shanghai relocatees, and the urban area has restored the former Shanghai: foreigners, STARBUCK, Petty, clubbing, shopping, large green space, as well as the so-called successful people to purchase a house ......, the former Shanghai people (in fact, really does not belong here) in response to the government building of the relocation of the operations said goodbye to the place of their origin, and occasionally re-visit one day old haunt, will say, ah, change really big! Shanghai more beautiful. However, China has changed residence ......
Dear friend, if you have the ideal opportunity, to join me in Shanghai looking for a girl to do girlfriend (beautiful, and will also know how to dress, knowing at the appropriate time Fadia, but not artificial, and, will tell you that she do not like a particular brand of perfume reasons, there will tell you that the right suit and shoes with socks, and, perhaps a ballet jump, or Dan Yiqu "Maiden's Prayer," will occasionally take you through the Shanghai a secret garden, or her former school where Zaiqu with you the old place to eat ice cream, in short, they must experience the beauty of the future will have resonance.) walking along Huaihai Road, or in the Jinmao a cup of coffee, if tired, went to park a small seat.
Shanghai friends not to call me, maybe you have not yet come to Shanghai grandfather, when my grandfather's father had been settled on this. However, I am a stranger.
Shanghai prior to the prosperity of those who come from all over the world, including the creation of my ancestors, including Jiangsu and Zhejiang's merchants, (mainly Ningshao Suxichang area), but definitely not the driver, and Barber.
History will repeat itself! (Because I can for example: I am a friend of her family in Shanghai to buy a lot of luxury, and even the people of Shanghai are proud of the XX building a floor, my circle of friends outside Shanghai is basically accounts, have been bought in the urban areas a house, and his wife are also the majority of the people of Shanghai, is more fun, I bought a house, now leased to the people of Shanghai, but also received the rent it!)
Let us work together to change the character of the people of Shanghai Bar! Shanghai is also you, as well as ours, but also all the people.
Author: hjya
