We are in this age of people (30 or so), was born in Shanghai, who, in the eyes of foreigners called LOCAL, and should be part of Shanghai's second-and third-generation immigrants from. But in this account, we still needed to fill in his grandfather's place of origin, even our children's place of origin also failed to fill in Shanghai, in fact, from my generation, has been been not returned to countries of origin, but also because parents are atheist, even Qingming did not worship their ancestors used to, plus the countryside, people make more, a something to drink to come to our house to eat, with free help, and coupled with a bad housing conditions prior to Shanghai, so there will be no return to the mother's father in his home city. Only a few foreign relatives, it is nothing more than to save costs, arrange for them to see a doctor and so on, back in the future there will be no audio. . .
Such as ours, in Shanghai, the second generation and the generations of immigrants, the current housing conditions are usually not a problem. Because, the parents of that generation no matter what, by their length of service, whatever the outcome, had assigned the house before his retirement, (pre-reform state-owned unit of benefits is good.) While the unit because of the relationship between the level of seniority, some people's parents assigned to the urban area of the old house, almost, that is the kind of Shikumen, (or if you go to Nanjing Road, Sichuan Road, and then intends to sneak up on the small road next to look at so far in the city center can still see lanes and alleys of some old-fashioned rooms, conditions are relatively poor, may be sharing a kitchen and toilet, and some even do not have toilets), or Shanghai famous "Three Bay, get a" house (Jiugen recently went to see the house almost Xitang, short house, thin embryo wall, raw briquettes stoves, wood toilet live), but with the municipal road traffic development, real estate development, many of the relocation had been very lucky, some families can be very stingy in the slightly remote areas live in a little to big the new house. Therefore, it laid the initial parents in Shanghai, the economic foundation of life, this generation of housing is often not strained. Some people get married even moved to a spouse account, where the chance encounter of the second demolition. Therefore, some families may also have several sets of hands the house. Because, as Shanghai's further opening up and international, many outsiders are flocking to Shanghai to find jobs and develop their initial lease is the past, those immigrants Shanghai house. Some time ago, one of my friend just did not rent a house, he also is willing to rent to short-term visitors to Shanghai do, but it is more cumbersome and security issues before anything.
If you think of Shanghai to live for some time, but also very necessary to understand some of these people's practices. Often these people are more comfortable, timid, and generally speaking, 40, 50 men and women is more difficult to get along with, indeed, have so little taste of the general public, in particular, to see if they are in public places, the "evil deeds" know. If, however, sympathize with many of them experienced the state-owned enterprise reform, but faced being laid off or unemployed, everything at ease. 30 or so will be better, after all, the young, many people have more opportunities to choose their own work and life, and even then, they have not started a generation of family planning, usually at home there are several children, small off is a collective life, Therefore, in personal behavior side should still better contacts. However, be difficult twenties say, because the relentless number of families have started family planning, child more, usually these people are more selfish, but also less focus on mutual affection, after all, the love of their parents only gave him the 1, and if extreme selfishness, then the quality of his parents will not be good there, or grandparents how education does not like. Generalities can pay to do my colleagues, hard luck; if the marriage, we should count you are unfortunate, because the values usually can not be reformed.
Shanghai people are not very welcome to someone else before their home to play. Relatives are more often moving, but if the difference in living conditions between relatives are more, then die of old age are also plenty of incompatible exchanges. The reason is very simple, usually a house not very large, so Shanghai there are a lot of parks, and every holiday is overcrowded. As the gap between people's income increases, the rich can go to restaurants entertain the guests, so the number of communities in the vicinity of the restaurant business is still good, and very cheap. But it is now a general restaurant to attract customers with price is indeed very common in the environment and services generally. There are brands of restaurants, usually the prices will not be outrageous, but the hot phenomenon is usually to be reservation for. Go eat eat, eat a lot of people in Shanghai or for communication, so hot phenomenon of the restaurant, if it is the lobby, when the downtown set, life Dingfei take-smoke steam steaming. Although Shanghai has been civilized out of the treaty, non-smoking in public places, but restaurants that dare to offend the old King then? However, like the quiet people still can find in some places, if not very particular about taste, you can go to three-star and above hotels, but may be relatively high price point, but lower than a store brand out there will not be high there. It should be rest assured that inside is: service were trained, the locals are more; Health and a bit better, usually with very young children to go, as well as baby seats, although the outside of the hotel also has become a hot phenomenon, but to see seat, we know that those services are not pay attention to hygiene to clean, but a child of the most important thing is health of the. So it is usually after the birth of my baby, If you go to restaurants, only to find hotels of the nearest. This is the only option. Add one more thing to look at the restaurant is best to go the bathroom, if not clean, then the kitchen those "idlers Mo into" a place is not guaranteed clean.
Also, a guest to Shanghai people, especially the meals should be gifts, but gifts are not very expensive, usually the most convenient delivery of fruit. To give them is a big head thing, though often it was sent to health care products, but really to eat do not eat it? Not necessarily, and sometimes, some elderly people received the gift, but usually do not eat, how to do it, wasting another unfortunately, so hands He walked the next one people. Therefore, we must get the best inquiries well in advance so as to avoid other people collected also difficult. I also found that Shanghai people are still very "obedient", especially for listen to advertising, such as Melatonin ads, stupid go stupid, to see relatives and to send out a gift, actually is a species. May be a herd mentality at play bar.
By: jc2002
